{"id":2067,"date":"2016-08-08T21:46:25","date_gmt":"2016-08-09T01:46:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/createcalling.wpengine.com\/?p=2067"},"modified":"2016-08-09T12:49:52","modified_gmt":"2016-08-09T16:49:52","slug":"systems-fail","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/creativecallingcoaching.com\/systems-fail\/","title":{"rendered":"Systems Fail\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"
There are actually three things you can count on in life: death, taxes, and systems failing.<\/span><\/p>\n That\u2019s not quite true\u2026<\/b><\/p>\n Some things stick…I always brush my teeth twice a day, for instance. \u00a0I can\u2019t NOT do it… I feel icky if I don\u2019t.<\/span><\/p>\n But the routines we implement, also known as \u2018resolutions\u2019? \u00a0Working out everyday, meditating, keeping a journal, making three sales calls a day…trust me. \u00a0At some point, they go off the rails\u2026<\/p>\n Unless\u2026<\/b><\/p>\n We accept that fact, and adapt to it. \u00a0Several things here are key: Noting the pain we feel when we give up, accounting for momentum reboots, applying variations, and TIMING.<\/span><\/p>\n Timing is key.<\/b><\/p>\n What <\/span>is<\/i><\/b> automatic for you? \u00a0Whether it’s brushing your teeth, or taking medication, immediately before or after is where the new habit belongs, as a natural prelude or follow up. \u00a0\u00a0You start to connect the two, so that when part of the routine breaks down, you feel…icky (pain, remember?)<\/span><\/p>\n Sometimes systems just get boring. Or you get caught up in the urgency of something else (same thing).<\/b> Structure is your friend.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n You resist it but think about the last time you were on a roll\u2026.you were probably held by it in some way…for instance, you were learning something you really liked, and kept at it day after day. \u00a0<\/span>That\u2019s how it got easy.<\/b><\/p>\n Try mixing things up if you need to. \u00a0Maybe you need to work out before you meditate one day and vis versa the next\u2026.maybe you need to tack a reward on afterwards..(or even before, so you feel like you need to pay it off!)<\/span><\/p>\n Life is not static. \u00a0There is no \u2018set it and forget\u2019 when it comes to self-development. \u00a0The only thing you can \u00a0really count on is hitting the reset button\u2026.learn to be creative about it and \u00a0you\u2019ll be fine! \u00a0In fact, see that reset as a challenge, rather than a failure.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" There are actually three things you can count on in life: death, taxes, and systems failing. That\u2019s not quite true\u2026 Some things stick…I always brush my teeth twice a day, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2070,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_exactmetrics_skip_tracking":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_active":false,"_exactmetrics_sitenote_note":"","_exactmetrics_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n
\nIf you have ADHD, this will sound counter-intuitive but\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n