Boredom as Kryptonite

Boredom as Kryptonite

Boredom – it’s like kryptonite to someone with ADHD…or it can certainly feel that way.  Here are some ways to counter the anxiety and lethargy (usually both simultaneously) generated by boredom: Bribe yourself. Got something you treat yourself to every day? A...
ADHD is a Superpower!

ADHD is a Superpower!

While ADHD is considered a ‘mental disorder’ in the DSM5, it can be a superpower.  Hyperfocus, impulsivity, creativity, keeping several projects moving forward simultaneously, energy levels, and the ability to hyperfocus can all lead to incredible success in...
FLASH! Emotions….

FLASH! Emotions….

If you have ADHD, managing “flash emotions” can be especially challenging. For example, the sudden intensity of rage can be overwhelming and hard to manage. Without tools, it is far too easy to undo a relationship or career opportunity in under a nano-second before...
“Does that mean I have ADHD?”

“Does that mean I have ADHD?”

It can be comforting to label ourselves.  At best, a medical diagnosis of ADHD creates a sense of separation between what you perceive as your faults and who you really are. For example there is a relief when you realize that you’re “not just lazy”. An ADHD diagnosis...
Eye Contact is a Superpower

Eye Contact is a Superpower

DISCLAIMER: This post does not apply to the severely visually impaired, who probably have developed compensatory superpowers. When I was a very young woman, I had a super-power.  I could walk into any public space, a bar, a restaurant, a park…and if I saw someone...